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My favourite conversations are the ones where I am so deeply engaged

that I forget to monitor and modulate;

where there is so much trust

that I forget the sound of my own voice

and what my face is doing,

whether my hands are moving too much.

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I love this - and those are my favorite conversations, too!

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I really relate with this, A! I love the simplicity and vulnerability of this poem.

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....so much trust.......rare, indeed.

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Very nice, A. I look forward to that engaging conversation with you one day, face and sound included!

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I live way off key.

Its a nice quiet haven

for sharing with same.

"sometimes it takes

a long time

to sound like yourself"

-- miles davis--

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Ooooh I love that Miles Davis quote so much!

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I like this, Chuck! It reads like a fine jazz riff that you will recognize anywhere, “round midnight!”

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Finger snaps over expresso

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This one's pretty heavy. It's something that comes to mind when I think of voice, or not having one.

.

On account of nodes

on my vocal cords I was

supposed to go speechless

for ten days, not even

a whisper, especially not

that in fact. I took a little

notepad to school with me

but I couldn’t do it, I felt

too weird, and whispered

even though I knew

I shouldn’t. As long as I was

sacrificing something

I could tell myself I was

being good.

.

At my friend’s house

that weekend a bunch of us

were watching a movie including

her dad who was always giving us

back massages and somehow

that was normal.

From the first slip

of a hand around my front

to the first slip of a syllable

from my mouth was

probably just five seconds,

but it felt like years

and has since become

its own page

in the leaden scrapbook.

.

Upstairs in the kitchen I got

the glass of water I’d said

I needed and he appeared

in the doorway and apologized for

"the shirt thing."

I whispered something I don’t

remember but I bet it was

nice as pie. I told myself

I was being good as I returned

to the couch and no doubt

sat next to him again (though

not too close) and never

spoke up, not even

on day eleven

or in the full-volume

life that followed.

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"Its own page / in the leaden scrapbook." Wow. You manage to hold the heaviness of abuse together with the lightness that girls and women are taught to brush these things off with, as if they are nothing . . . and as if that demand for lightness isn't its own heaviness, its own page in the scrapbook. This is really beautiful and moving.

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I'm so sorry, Rebekah. I wish so many of us didn't have stories like this.

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Rebekah, this is so moving and powerful and so full of opening awareness and that knowledge that comes from deeper than out known consciousness. Thes eliens are superb: "From the first slip/of a hand around my front/to the first slip of a syllable/from my mouth was/probably just five seconds,/but it felt like years/and has since become/its own page/in the leaden scrapbook."

It brought sadness, anger and resignation in me, this all too familiar story with its own unique impacts on every person who shares it. Thank you for sharing this part of your story.

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1 Hundred Posts… Absolutely amazing! We need to put them in a book… surely there must be some publishers, lurking out there…

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I don't know that ALL of them belong in a book! But thank you! 💜

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Lisa, your spoken voice may need a bit of rest, but your inner poet voice is always coming through. I like your spoken voice and look forward to hearing more of it!!!

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Thank you so much, Larry! I'm happy to report that I'm speaking at full volume again.

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That’s cause to celebrate! 😊

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This one came to me tonight after our Christmas Eve service, full of music, poetry, prayer and wonder.

Christmas Eve 2024

^

The chatter calms as Gloria begins to sing,

ethereal voice cutting across this dark night,

the sound of angels harmonizing on the wind,

heart songs rising from the ashes

of the broken ones.

Bells ringing, some in tune,

Coaxing the shy ones, the singers

who were told too early

they had no voice.

^

On this night let us find our voices.

Voices of hope against the despairing dawn.

Voices of peace where all we can see is war.

Voices of joy against the despair of the elitist tyranny,

Voices of love rising against waves of hatred and cruelty.

Voices of light blending into the darkness

such that we all become one.

Voices of a dream that refuses its burial,

bursting through again and again

in the places where the shadows have fallen.

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The second stanza feels like a chorus, building to crescendo. This is lovely, Larry. And the line "bells ringing, some in tune" made me giggle with delight.

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Thank you Lisa! Our bell choirs are passionate and dedicated, even with the occasional missed note! !

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A Christmas miracle 💕🎄

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I hope your voice returns soon ♡

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Thank you so much, Tanya! After two days of near total silence, it's making its return!

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I hope you recover quickly! I also have a weird relationship with my voice. I find myself singing aloud or making odd random noises, but I can't stand to hear myself on recording.

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Thank you, A! And I get this. Recordings used to feel unbearable to me. I've slowly softened toward them and begun to feel like I can recognize myself in their sounds.

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Strange how these messages come to me at certain times and at the appropriate moment. Hours ago I decided I’m tired of talking to everyone and anyone and going to attempt to just shut up and MAYBE listen.

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Well, if I have to have laryngitis, I’m happy it’s for a good cause like the universe communicating with you! 😂❤️

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So...you're not ready to sing in the choir!

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Afraid not!

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